Unlike "Sex in the City," where the 30 somethings were young, firm, sexy, and dating, being divorced, middle aged (52) with 3 grown kids in the suburbs the experience is not quite the same.
It's rather dry out here.
Divorced women find themselves hitting many walls in the dating arena compared to their male counterparts. Studies show that divorced women over 45 are parched out there in the dating desert. Middle aged men tend to look for an 'oasis' in younger women rendering older women virtually invisible.
If we are not careful we can begin to believe that we are unlovable and have nothing to offer. This feeling crosses all demographics. Celebrity Demi Moore was just hospitalized 2 months after filing for divorce from from her husband Aston Kutcher. In an interview with Harper's Bazaar she stated, "What scares me is that I'm going to ultimately find out at the end of my life that I'm really not lovable, that I'm not worthy of being loved. That there's something fundamentally wrong with me...and that I wasn't wanted here in the first place."
It doesn't matter who we are. Aren't we all scared of being 'unlovable' or not finding love again?
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